mean_liar wrote:Unless, of course, it is based on the rationale that contraception is abundant and pregnancy from sex in which it cannot be employed is a special case in which responsibility for getting pregnant was outside the realm of the mother.
thank you, good sir.
RobbyPants wrote:
Well, maybe that's not what you meant, but it's what you said. A better response would have been to clarify your stance on what equals a "living human being". Per your definition, the guy with a heart attack stops being a living human, so your quip about saving the life is a non-sequitur.
I didn't think I needed to go back and cover the legal and ethical standards involving adults. (I realize that I tend to post walls-o'-text, so I try to be brief whenever possible)
hint: if your contrariness has to go to these lengths of asininity, then you're probably missing something very fundamental.
so, are we clear on what I meant, or do I still need to articulate it in more detail?
I don't see anyone here touting the virtues of irresponsibility.
no, they're just apologizing for it.
people don't like to be held responsible for themselves; and since nobody likes hypocrites and "judgement" seems to be a bad word (regardless of context), we've become too pussified to actually expect others to maintain any sort of standards.
I personally don't want to see people punished for long periods of time due to decisions they couldn't make (rape) or ones they didn't fully understand. And if you make abortion legal for rape victims and not others, people will just lie to get abortions (and possibly accuse innocent people of rape to get one). I don't like the thought of a woman using abortion as a contraceptive, but there's no way to enforce that without punishing rape victims and/or guys in consensual relationships.
as I have defined things (or as I'm willing to have them defined), there is a window of opportunity.
personal anecdote time:
I have personally know 2 women who have aborted their rape-babies. in both cases, the decision was made immediately. others can do the same.
part of the responsibility that I'm talking about is simply making a decision.
Lago PARANOIA wrote:wotmaniac wrote:and could you possibly explain the whole religious bigotry part? as it stands, I'm seeing a bit of a non sequitur there.
Because if you reject neuroscience's definition of personhood (and fetuses clearly do not fit that definition until well into pregnancy), it probably means that you follow that of a religion.
autonomous heartbeat would seem to indicate
something. I'm also okay with delaying that legal definition up to quickening.
besides, as a science, neuroscience is still fairly young and underdeveloped (relatively speaking, that is).
oh, wait a minute -- did I just do that?
oops.
goddammit, I just did it again.
Lago PARANOIA wrote:Also, I'm never going to get a straight answer to my original question, am I?

actually, I covered this in my first post.
DSMatticus wrote:
The only actual, valid justification for a stance of "rape-abortion okay, not-rape-abortion bad," is to say, "carrying the fetus is punishment for your choice." That choosing to have sex is somehow inherently bad, and the consequences of having sex should be allowed to negatively impact your life and you should have no recourse to 'improve your life' because you chose to have sex and that's bad. And you can hold that position, but it hinges on the presupposition that sex is bad, and that's a moral judgment I find laughable and certainly don't share with you; stop trying to legislate it.
you seem to have missed a couple of things. but I do realize that maybe I've not articulated myself well; so let me give it another shot:
there needs to be clear point at which we legally define "living human being"; furthermore, that point needs to be an empirically-determinable milestone (not some moving arbitrary timeline; nor just a complete free-for-all). I have proposed the 2 possible milestones that make the most sense to me. And yes, AFAIC, anything before that milestone is just a lump of tissue.
I'm okay with removing a lump of tissue. I'm not okay with killing a human being that has not done anything wrong.
And as to the "life of the mother" issue, post-milestone, .... well, that's what's known as a "complex moral dilemma". Here's the deal on that one -- one of them is going to die no matter what. That being the case, it's probably "better" to save the life of the one that is already a functioning member of society. Sure, mommy is free to choose the other option, but I would recommend against it (though, still free to choose so, nonetheless).
I see another fallacious rabbit hole coming; but I'll deal with it when it comes.
Oh, and as to your "sex bad" assertion ..... more strawman.
being irresponsible is bad (not just in this case; but in life in general)
casual sex with random strangers is irresponsible. to take it a step further, casual sex without forethought or proper consideration of the consequences is irresponsible. you can have sex for other-than-procreative purposes and it not be bad/irresponsible. responsible in this case is taking all reasonable precautions, and having a decisive game plan in the event of contraceptive failure.
K wrote:Psychic Robot wrote:
it's not my problem that tyrone decided to boost cars instead of going to college and jose never learned to speak english. people are responsible for their own decisions, sorry that you think the poor are helpless, weak, and stupid
Wow. Racist much?
well, statistically speaking .......
but seriously, I don't think he was intending to be racist. it's just that it is minorities for which gov't/society keeps selling this victimhood coddling bullshit.
it's called nuance. (well, at least, that's the connotation that I took away from it)
DSMatticus wrote:
Which are the two routes you have here:
1) Social circumstances are making it such that these people are less likely to succeed at life.
2) Minorities are genuinely 'inferior beings' and are less likely to succeed at life (i.e., you calling minorities lazy criminals).
how about both.
i.e., the social circumstance
is the fact that the gov't, et. al., keeps
treating them like they're inferior.
if you tell somebody enough times that the system is rigged and they can't get ahead, then they will eventually believe it, and, thus, act like it.
and PR covered the rest.