Omegonthesane wrote:You can have human contact in the fashion that it is generally understood in a wheelchair. You can also have such human contact while wearing pants. You can't have it in an Iron Man suit.
People lived in iron lungs for decades and kept up "human contact". It's not a big thing to be vulnerable at intimate moments, nor are prosthesis that get in the way of that particularly soulful, real people deal with that all the time too.
I appreciate your genuine feelings for the story at hand, but it must have been well written to tug your emotions because it's not inherently a thing. Some people's boyfriends live on the other side of the planet, which is tricky to shift out of the way for a quick kiss. They manage.
Likewise there are presumably stories to be told of how Mr Lich Who Lives In A Lovely Garden maintains his lovely garden,
Oh, and this side of the argument sucks. As a player, we enter the scene, the DM describes a lovely garden with nothing weird about it at all, what, so we give up surprise or have to meta-game the shit out of figuring out there's a monster in there?
Fuck you guys. Foreshadow your damn boss monsters. "You didn't expect that" is both the worst kind of passive-aggressive bullshit DMing, and also really fucking disempowering for the players.
Let people know what is coming by putting some ice monsters in an ice-scape around the ice-wizard. It's not
just thematically pleasing, it helps players interact with the game in an immersive way. Lich-gardens should be eerie and dead, and full of nasty undead things and hangman trees and fucking
THEMES, people.
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PC, SJW, anti-fascist, not being a dick, or working on it, he/him.